When school let out for the Summer, Sara and the kids and I drove up to Georgia.
Our only stop on the drive was a rest area on the Turnpike. Surprisingly
(because Florida), about 80% of the people inside had masks on. It was my first
encounter with a lot of people indoors since quarantine began and my anxiety was
high.
Mom, Dad, and Granny were leaving the lake to go back home that day, but they
stayed for a few hours of overlap after we arrived. We spent time on the dock in
our first socially distanced family get-together.
Sara and the kids stayed for a week. I stayed for what has ended up being an
indefinite visit.
When lockdown began and everyone couldn’t get haircuts, I decided to grow my
hair out with them. I’ve been cutting my own hair since college so I could have
just continued doing that. But I’d been wanting to grow it out, and since I
wasn’t around anyone I could get through the awkward growing out phase in
private.
My beard was the first to go. I got tired of it and had to shave.
Sorry about the mustache - it’s not all glamour around here.
When the beaches opened back up we decided to show up really early one day to
beat everyone else there. We had about an hour of playing before the crowds
showed up and we left. And the surf was way too rough to go swimming - pictures
somehow never depict this, but the waves were breaking at my chest height.
But that hour was beautiful.
This was our first time leaving the house to do something in almost 2 months.
Sara, Lillie, Holden and I picked up food and found a secluded spot at the back
of a parking lot by the Intracoastal to eat. The kids played on some rocks. We
saw a few people walking on a trail nearby. It was nice to get out of the
neighborhood.
I lived with Sara and her family while I was in Florida.
This wasn’t my first time living with them for a while, the last time being
during part of my year off. When I arrived in March I overheard Holden say
“Dad! Uncle Brian is home!”. ❤️
I felt incredibly lucky to have been with family through the beginning of
lockdown.
This was taken on Easter. We had a quarantine egg hunt with the neighbors: they
hid eggs in our yard for the kids to find. Then we hid eggs in their yard.
This was our last trip to the beach before they were closed.
What this picture doesn’t show is that Holden’s face was painted like a tiger. I
think by Lillie.
Palm Beach County schools closed on March 16, extending Spring Break
by one week. School was then virtual until Summer. New York restrictions
began on March 17. All beaches and non-essential businesses in Palm Beach County
were closed beginning March 19.
On March 8th I flew from Atlanta to West Palm Beach to spend what I thought was
going to be 3 weeks in Florida. Some people were already wearing masks at the
airport, even though at this point we were being told that masks didn’t do
anything. Had my flight been even a couple of days later I probably would not
have taken it.
A Winter escape is normal for me; the season hits me pretty hard (depression
etc). It’s amazing how much of a mental shift takes place when I leave the cold
darkness for sunshine and warmth. Walking outside without having to suit up
feels like a luxury. Swimming in the ocean is a delicacy.
I was supposed to be in Florida for a few weeks of working remotely then I’d be
back to NYC for Spring. The universe had other plans. Cases in NYC rose quickly.
Lockdowns began. I didn’t get on my return flight at the end of the month. I had
my first encounter with a “it’s no worse than the flu” person.
Shortly after this picture was taken an iguana fell from the palm tree above me
and barely missed my head.
From Georgia I drove to Alabama to spend a week with Price and Sydney. I
worked remotely that week then we went for a hike over the weekend.
The bottle of hand sanitizer on my backpack was purchased from a nearby CVS
which had already imposed a limit of 1 per person. I’d be flying to Florida the
next day.
This is my family sporting our finest loungewear.
After the training in Atlanta we got together for a weekend to celebrate
Price’s birthday.